榮獲艾美獎和金球獎肯定的熱門影集《慾望城市》(Sex and the City),劇中的經典台詞令人回味再三⋯⋯哪句台詞你最同意?

「與舊愛發生的性愛是讓人沮喪的,因為⋯⋯」

Sex and the City:話題不斷的經典愛情喜劇

《慾望城市》(Sex and the City)是美國 HBO 有線電視網所播放的喜劇類劇集,於 1998 年 6 月 6 日首播,2004 年 2 月 22 日結束,共六季 94 集。

此影集獲得許多艾美獎和金球獎的獎項。這部電影幾乎涵蓋了當時都市女子會遇到的所有情感問題,細膩地刻畫出都會女性在家庭、事業、友情與愛情,以及性生活中會碰到的大小衝突。

當中有美好、有慾望、有悲傷也有感動,一起來看看底下這些雋永的台詞,哪句最得你心?

「蘿蔔青菜各有所好,一個女人的草卻可能是另一個女人的寶。」

One woman’s trash is another woman’s treasure.

「忘掉一個人所需的時間,大概是你和他戀愛時長的一半。」

It takes half the total time you went out with someone to get over them.

「能夠成為心靈伴侶的人,別太過糾結於尋找他。也許我們幾個正是對方的心靈良伴,至於伴侶嘛,就當作是漫長一生中邂逅的好玩伴好了。」

Maybe we can be each other's soul mates. And then we can let men be just these great, nice guys to have fun with.


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「有緣人難尋,千萬不要在這樣的伴侶面前擺出一副難搞孤高的姿態,玩欲擒故縱、若即若離。」

Don't play hard to get with a man who's hard to get.

「請弄清楚,拿你來消遣的人,無論你是第一次約會就和他上床,還是等到第十次約會再發生,他甩掉你的機率都是一樣的。」

Reality check. A guy can just as easily dump you if you fuck him on the first date as he can if you wait until the tenth.

「與舊愛發生的性愛是讓人沮喪的。如果這次體驗讓你前所未有的滿足,那你再也沒機會享受了,因為他不屬於你。但若這次性愛很糟糕,那麼就更讓人顏面掃地,因為你竟然淪落到要找舊愛來滿足自己。」

Sex with an ex can be depressing. If it's good you can't get it anymore. If it's bad you just had sex with an ex.

延伸閱讀:分手後的性愛:為什麼你忍不住和前任上床?

「如果連接吻的時候,伴侶的舌頭都只會賴在那裡懶得動,那你還期望他們在床上會有多活躍和賣力呢?」

If their tongue's just going to lay there, what do you think thrir dick's goung to do?

「據我知道,所有的親密關係都是建立在謊言和相互無條件接受的幻想之上。」

Practically all relationships I know are built on a foundation of lies and mutually accepted delusion.

「你嘛幫幫忙,我們和前任之間永遠都會存在競爭,這場比賽就叫做『誰死得難看』。」

Oh please, there's always a competition with an ex ; it's called “who will die miserable?”


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「總有一個比較好的分手方式,但是絕對不包括偷偷用便利貼留言這一招!」

There is a good way to break up with someone, and it doesn't include a Post-It!

「無論是誰傷透了你,不管要花多久時間才能重新站起來,沒了朋友的陪伴你是絕對撐不過去的!」

No matter who broke your heart , or how long it takes to heal, you'll never get through it without your friends.

同場加映:分手後,我是誰?失戀的 2 個療癒練習:破碎後,請重新擁抱自己美好的模樣

「過去就像是一塊妨礙我們前進的絆腳石,也許唯有不再糾結於此,放手,我們才有機會遇見新的自我。」

Maybe the past is like an anchor holding us back. Maybe, you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be.

「需求這件事就是那麼奇怪。有時,當努力滿足了它之後,你就會發現你不再渴望和需要了。」

That's the thing about needs. Sometimes when you get them met, you don't need them anymore.

「船到橋頭自然直,每件事最終都會有個命中註定的圓滿結局,此前,就請放下自己的困惑,活在當下吧,每件事情必有它發生的道理。」

Eventually all the pieces fall into place......until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moment, and know that everything happens for a reason.

「在所有的關係中,最令人興奮、最具挑戰性和深刻意義的,不是戀愛,而是我們與自己的關係。」

The most exciting, challenging, and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. 

「也許,你可以假裝性高潮,但是親密感這種東西是無法偽裝的。」

You may be able to fake an orgasm, but you can’t fake intimacy.

「單身通常都會被解讀成沒人要,但現在,這意味著你非常性感,並且花時間決定自己的生活和與誰共度時光。」

Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you’re pretty sexy and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.

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「戀愛關係不是玩遊戲。他們是基於成熟和誠實的溝通。」

Relationships are not about playing games. They’re about mature and honest communication.

「和伴侶許諾終生就像買車一樣,付款前,你總要先試試它的性能吧?」

Before you buy the car, you take it for test drive.